I'm surprised by the number of men in our Facebook group that believe in Odinism and other stories from Norse mythology. Several have left Christianity for the same reasons many are leaving: hypocrisy, legalism, division within the church...basically the very reason we need Christianity. In any case, I have a challenge for you: dig in to Christianity rather than giving up on it. And, be honest with yourself about your reasons for walking away. 

You know his story. The Lone Survivor. An American Hero. Badass. But, what is his mission now? How does a man go from hell to the family life?

Marcus Luttrell and I dive into these questions and more. One thing is clear from this conversation: there is no quit in this man. It shows up everywhere and it's something we need more of.

Enjoy this epic conversation!

- Mike

I don't like people crying. It feels weird to me. Don't get me wrong, I cry...or I should say I have cried. But connecting with people when they are in an overly emotional state is not something I enjoy. I find this to be true of most men. We're not the best at nurturing, and there are some biological reasons for this. But, this is an area I need to grow in, and I imagine and area you do as well.

So many men who are in positions of leadership and influence keep their faith "private". That always bothered me. I am a Christian. I let people know that about me because it influences my entire worldview. Being a follower of Jesus means I am created with a purpose, for a High Call, and should not base my potential upon past circumstances or what I see around me.

If you can't talk about your faith, defend your faith, reason with others about your faith, then your faith is weak. We're called to be salt and light "so they may glorify your Father in heaven." We can do a lot of good in this world without connecting it to our faith, but that's that what we're called to do.

At some point, especially when we become fathers, we decide it's time to "put away childish things", buckle down, grind it out, and eventually die. Afterall, that's the manly thing to do right? Stoic, hard working, all business, no nonsense? It couldn't be further from the truth!

Men, we need time to cut loose and to do those things that bring us joy. We need to be giddy, laugh, and connect with our boyhood enthusiasm.